Showing posts with label Dancing. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Dancing. Show all posts

Saturday, August 4, 2007

Starting to Sing

B. has always loved to dance in front of the mirror. Lately, he has added in more vocalizations. It used to be a lot "Aaaaaah"s, but more and more it is strings of syllables that have the intonation of speech.

Yesterday, he was listening to a Signing Time CD (I'm embarassed to even mention Signing Time again, but it seems to have a magical power in our home), and started trying to sing along with a song...

Lay down on your bed,
Pull your blanket high.
Turn out the light.
Welcome the night.
Dream, dream,
Sweet dreams.

It's sung as a round, which I would think would be confusing, but it is the first time he has ever tried to sing along with a song! He has filled in final words, but that has such a different feel. Since then, I have overheard him trying to sing it a few times while looking at the mirror.

For so long, I felt I mostly had G's progress to blog about, and it feels so great to be writing this about B!

Thursday, March 29, 2007

Moving Onward and Upward

To get the whole hospital visit thing out of our system, my sister and I took the boys to the Moody Gardens aquarium on Galveston Island today. it's so wonderful having my sister here. When I was living my single life back in Boston, we saw each other every weekend, which was great.

The last time we went to the aquarium in July or so, B. and G. seemed completely unaware of where we were. This time they loved it. G. (who has a slight penguin obsession) stood with his face squashed up against the glass, staring at the penguins. Some of them swam right up to where he was to check him out. B. went into his happy dance, clapping his hands and doing his fancy footwork the whole time that he watched the penguins. J. enjoyed it, too, although he was torn between the penguins and the seals and had to keep running back and forth. He especially liked a glass tunnel in which you could see sharks swimming overhead.

We had a picnic lunch and then walked down to look at the water. We happened upon a great playground, and spent a while there until all three boys started to hit the fatigue wall and get cranky. This time it was J. who got into the fire ants, but we got them off before they bit him. He wanted to play with the giant chess set which was near the playground, so we gave it a try. He's starting to be very interested in playing games, although chess for him right now consists of hugging the knights and ignoring all the other pieces. I can't wait until we can really play board games.

This afternoon I felt as if B and G were trying to prove the doctor wrong about the MR thing (which at this point is pretty meaningless to me, anyway). B has been saying "up", and a few other things. G. was trying to do the motions to "Head, Shoulders, Knees and Toes". When J. and I were playing hide-and-seek, both the boys tried to chime in whenever I counted to ten.

Playing hide and seek with J. is funny, because first of all, he usually hides in plain sight. Then when I try to ham it up, and look all over, saying "Where could J. be?", he can't help yelling out, "Here I am!" Today the twins got very excited whenever I counted, and ran around the house when I got to ten. It was nice because we were all playing together, even though they weren't actually looking for J., as far as I could tell. Although, I can certainly see how the point of the game isn't clear to them, given the way we play it!

My short term goal right now is to replace some of G's lost wooden penguins. He started with three, and right now we are down to one, which has been chewed on quite a bit by the dog. I actually called the toy store in Massachusetts where my friend bought them, but they were out. I'll try the internet. I know he'll deal with it if the last one gets lost, but he's so cute when he plays with it. It jumps around, goes for a ride on a kiddy bike, kisses other little animals, etc.

Thursday, January 18, 2007

Other people are starting to notice

We took the twins to Chik-Fil-A (great indoor playground) this morning, for a chance to interact with other kids, and let's face it, to get out of the house. Jeff (big brother) is at nursery school, and Lori, one of our amazing helpers, was along to toddler-wrangle.

On our last few outings, I've noticed some funny looks, and I'm realizing that the twins' differentness is becoming noticeable to others. I believe we're are entering into a whole new phase of autism-parenting: deciding how much to tell to whom. For a long time I've been relying on saying, "They're very shy", which is true in a very extreme sort of way, I suppose. So far it's not actual misbehavior setting them apart. They have an unusual way of approaching playgrounds, they tend to dance around a lot, especially in front of mirrors, and they use signs rather than speech, most of the time.

It makes the twin situation feel so much more real now that others are finally noticing. For months, it's been me trying to convince people (Early Intervention, their dad, their pediatrician) that there was a problem, namely PDD. Now I find myself wanting to explain to strangers that it's not a problem, it's just the twins being who they are.

Favorite twin moments of the morning:
Murray sitting calmly in a "big-boy" chair at Chik-Fil-A, enjoying his chicken nuggets
Anthony attempting to dance "The Pigeon" with Bert on a Sesame St. DVD

Favorite Jeff moment:
The return of his Captain Feathersword pirate costume (flowered sun hat, sunglasses, rain boots, and a giant feather)