tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-88964414197418536942024-03-07T16:11:25.947-08:00Gardening, goofing off and autismUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger188125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8896441419741853694.post-34202278043243826952013-06-27T21:52:00.000-07:002013-06-27T21:52:05.213-07:00Haven't written a post in so long. And looking back, either I used to be delusional, or the twins have really regressed in their talking and a few other things. Possibly why I don't post any more. i think they still know all the same things or more, but they are just in a less social phase? Well, these things always come and go. Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8896441419741853694.post-84227264667671556932012-08-03T14:57:00.000-07:002012-08-03T14:57:01.404-07:00It has been a fantastic summer! We are doing Special Olympics swimming. We went to a family reunion and brought along our sitter who was a twin chaser/entertainer for every waking hour. My arms are healed up, and I'm trying to think what to do if the scratching starts again when school starts.<br />
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B. said his big brother's name the other day, when J. had been at day camp all day. Lots of good things like this are going on, and of course, a lot of the usual challenges. Hanging in there, and planning to lie on the couch for three straight hours on the first day of school.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8896441419741853694.post-14590103238681978832012-04-11T08:44:00.003-07:002012-04-11T10:24:48.696-07:00Blog SlackerI am a true blog slacker. For a brief update, we are having some problems with scratching and biting. I wear long-sleeved shirts. Other wise I get looks and people asking, "Do you have a cat?" J. (the non-autistic brother) is absolutely obsessed with Michael Jackson and dancing to the Wii game "The Michael Jackson Experience". It's actually a fun thing for us to do together.<div><br /></div><div>Potty training continues, and we are making glacial progress. J. has a group of understanding friends who can handle the occasional partially clad twin running through, usually being chased by me (fully clothed) and the fact that you have to take your own soap and toilet paper into the bathroom. </div><div>School is going all right. Some administrator decided the twins cannot skip art class, which they had been doing because of the art-supply eating fixation they both have. Of all the issues I have with Texas special ed., missing art class is not an important one. It was not even on my radar. God forbid they are not getting the Texas TEKS in Art! Meanwhile they can't even get 1:1 Speech therapy or OT. Uh-oh, here I go. </div><div>I had been resolving to be more positive or at least keep more of my sarcasm to myself. Hence the dwindling number of blog posts. Although the blogs I enjoy reading are often pretty sarcastic.</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8896441419741853694.post-12093663816640362422012-02-17T10:00:00.000-08:002012-02-17T10:10:15.189-08:00Too busy to blog!<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhQeaZhQCSF6aaFsTDCw65I_x5hpxWX6le9dWOwOKxpTsTXx-8msjKfM-Y1pUCO7WdirLyUzzJ9hl1fdr42xWmPA-bFEMIxWOIxcgAjOrqgFVIzFfS09bwNt9DV0ePGw2dpgujuH-gSgUg/s1600/IMG_0077.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhQeaZhQCSF6aaFsTDCw65I_x5hpxWX6le9dWOwOKxpTsTXx-8msjKfM-Y1pUCO7WdirLyUzzJ9hl1fdr42xWmPA-bFEMIxWOIxcgAjOrqgFVIzFfS09bwNt9DV0ePGw2dpgujuH-gSgUg/s320/IMG_0077.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5710168507854285938" /></a><br />I was looking back at the blog archives and realized I used to post a lot more than now. I would pay so much attention to each word the twins said, or especially to anything they stopped doing. That was such an intense time. Well, it's still an intense time, but I feel more sure of who the twins are. I always used to be looking for a clue that they'd turn out high-functioning. Oh, those words... "high-functioning"! They were like Harvard or Yale, or "gifted and talented". Now I feel like I know they have a lot in there, but I also feel pretty sure they will need a lot of help throughout their lives. "High-functioning" has been replaced in my mind with "toilet-trained and able to communicate what they have to say". Now I think i'm more able to enjoy their quirkiness, and less apt to see everything as a clue to what they'll be like as adults (on the good days, anyway).<div>Going to get them early today, to use the IPad and IPod. Would like them to be able to use the IPad at school, but that's a whole other can of worms.</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8896441419741853694.post-90425516687341947492011-12-11T18:21:00.000-08:002011-12-11T18:24:51.124-08:00One more thingMy husband and I both thought we might have heard B. say "Mommy" today in the car. Which would be a first!<div><br /></div><div><br /></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8896441419741853694.post-30007260836783616982011-12-11T06:14:00.001-08:002011-12-11T06:15:00.667-08:00Articulation sneaking up on youSometime between last Christmas and this Christmas, B. can sing songs with perfectly recognizable words. It struck me when I heard "Santa Claus is Coming to Town"' turned around looking for G., and found myself looking at B. How could that clear little voice be coming out of B? When did this happen?
They both are so musical, and it is such a joy. My husband, who has a harder time dealing with the twins' autism, has been takinf B. to a guitar store to try out instruments. There is an employee who also has two boys with autism, and apparently he's very understanding. My husband looks so happy when they come home from those outings. He's planning to get the boys a drum set for Christmas. I'm very glad they've found this common ground. Not so excited about the drum set, but I'll live with it.
Well, this started out being about articulation, but it's all related. Music therapy, for kids and grown-ups.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8896441419741853694.post-26791980437564481292011-12-01T13:18:00.001-08:002011-12-01T13:20:09.823-08:00A friend of mine moved from here to Connecticut for the autism services. She had refused to send her daughter to our district and homeschooled her.<br />
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I am trying to be mature about this but I feel jealous!Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8896441419741853694.post-59762465855466234872011-10-28T09:37:00.000-07:002011-10-28T09:37:14.448-07:00Let's Get PhysicalTomorrow will be our second Saturday of Special Olympics bowling. I think what I like most about it is that it's purely for the kids. No discussion of treatment, cure, progress and so forth. Just fun.<br />
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<br />Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8896441419741853694.post-70405296327603136962011-10-04T19:43:00.000-07:002011-12-12T06:50:38.558-08:00If anyone is actually reading this blog (other than my sisters, who only comment in emails... which is fine, by the way), I have to recommend TeachTown.<br /><br />It's Discrete Trial Training, so limited in that way. On the other hand, if you have a child who is hard to motivate to do work, it could be just the thing. G. is working up a storm, although he still wishes it were YouTube.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8896441419741853694.post-47473173210650057422011-09-29T10:00:00.000-07:002011-09-29T10:03:39.805-07:00Parent/Teacher conferenceWell, I met with the twins' teacher this morning. It may or may not have been smart to have had two big cups of coffee and a Sudafed before driving to the school. That's not my recipe for getting high, it's just my normal coffee intake plus a little allergy problem I'm having. I only take half a dose of Sudafed because it makes me feel as if I'm hovering a few feet off the ground.<br />
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Anyway, I brought about eight of the file folder games I've been talking about, our IPad and a box of Oreos, in case the teacher wanted me to demonstrate what either twin can do in the presence of the right sandwich cookie. Their teacher greeted me and mentioned in the first ten minutes that she has ADHD and has been having hot flashes. Between the two of us it was a pretty hyper and disjointed conversation.<br />
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It started out with her saying how surprised they were when one morning G. did an alphabet puzzle all by himself. What the what? Here we go again, I thought. So I pulled out my file folders and gave her the Oreos, and now I'm just hoping that G. does me proud and actually shows some of what he can do. <br />
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There was more chit-chat, but the gist of the meeting was that the twins can do more than they'll let on, and we're going to work together to get them to do some of it at school. I know this teacher means well and is very motivated, so I'm hoping for the best.<br />
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Now if I can just figure out the secret of getting B. to show what he really knows. One thing I'm trying (only with G. so far because he can use the computer mouse ):<br />
"<a href="http://web.teachtown.com/">Teach Town Basics</a>"<br />
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It's not cheap, but the boy can do it. If I got a touchscreen, I think B. could, too.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8896441419741853694.post-85057946153070227292011-09-16T09:05:00.000-07:002011-09-16T09:08:01.571-07:00Autism Breakthrough in 3 Easy StepsMy husband and I are always joking that we could get rich by developing the M****** (our last name here) Protocol for autism. Doesn't really matter what it would be, but if some fraction of the desperate autism parents out there got on board, we'd be set for life. Our original plan had to do with watching the Wiggles and eating Tyson Chicken Nuggets and Leggo brand chocolate chip waffles.<br />
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We never went through with it, but just lately I've been watching G and thinking maybe we should re-consider. If you've ever dabbled in all the bio-medical stuff, anytime there's a change in your child's development you can't help thinking, "Is he eating differently?, etc. Just lately G. has done so many things for me that he wouldn't have done six months ago. In the pediatricians' waiting room I showed him how to play "Twinkle, Twinkle" on a music app. He took the IPad from me and played it himself. Then he tried to play Happy Birthday, and got a lot of the notes right. He has also been doing all the things I mentioned in the last post.<br />
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So here are the possible interventions:<br />
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In all seriousness, I think a lot of the changes can be chalked up to the IPad. Being able to operate the IPad with a touchscreen has changed the world for the twins. I don't know if it's all the fine-motor practice, or an increase in confidence, but now they are trying to use the computer mouse and doing things with apps they could never have done before. </div>
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<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8Y106CRxG4k&feature=related">Click Here for the YouTube video with magical healing properties</a></div>
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<br />Unknownnoreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8896441419741853694.post-23184687753770654992011-09-14T18:54:00.001-07:002011-09-14T18:54:54.537-07:00G. was home with pink eye today, and I got him to do so much work! Despite liking the new teacher initially, we are back to the old problem of no one realizing a fraction of what the twins, especially G., can do.<div>
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Time to send in the old DVD of G. working with me when he was four, saying words, letters, letter sounds and so on. It is starting to seem ridiculous. There he is with his old orange sippy cup, doing all sorts of stuff he won't do for them in first grade.</div>
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I am on a secret mission. Posting my plan here does not stop it from being secret. One advantage to having so few blog readers. The plan is to make videos of the twins doing tons of work. Today G. matched shape names to shapes, number words to numerals, the names of animals to pictures and more. He navigated around the PBS Kids website with the mouse, and talked me into watching a YouTube video on present continuous verbs.</div>
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My mission is still a little vague. Once I make all the movies proving that the twins can speak, use the IPad, etc., what will I do next? We will still be living in Texas, in a school district that hasn't even bought any IPads yet. Well, I'll start on step one, and maybe the next part of the plan will become clear to me. I'll get a lot of satisfaction out of it, in any case.</div>
Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8896441419741853694.post-26948202871908201842011-09-08T13:21:00.000-07:002011-09-08T13:22:13.326-07:00Artsy paint splotches or stubborn autism-related stain?I'm still deciding on this new template background. Sometimes it looks too much like a few surfaces in my house that just won't come clean, even with the "Magic Eraser" sponge. Hmmmm.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8896441419741853694.post-59074700033867363902011-09-02T12:50:00.000-07:002011-09-02T12:57:01.441-07:00More good newsToday I dropped by the school (unannounced) to have lunch with the boys. When I stopped by the twins' room, their teacher said, "Look at this" and pointed to G. He was sitting at a study carrell, working all on his own. No aide, no ABA therapist holding a tiny piece of Oreo. He was just working for the sake of working!
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<br />Also, they said that during calendar time, G. had suddenly said, "Break time" (something they have been having the twins request with a voice output device). It was the first time he'd said it, so they let him take a break. I bet he'll learn that skill pretty quickly!
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<br />There are a few issues with ratios and also communication between school and home, but G's working without needing a reward is wiping that out of my mind for the moment.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8896441419741853694.post-38641410494932118652011-08-29T09:31:00.000-07:002011-08-29T09:40:09.008-07:00Another good teacherIt may be time to exhale, relax, and stop waking up at 4 AM feeling panicky. We have a new teacher again this year, but I think she's another good one. The twins actually seem happier in the afternoons this year, which is an encouraging sign. Last year G. used to hide in his bed and have to be coaxed out.
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<br />The twins are back at their home campus, which makes big brother J. extremely proud. I also get to hear snippets of their day from him. For example, last week the Cookie Dough Fundraiser assembly was briefly halted so G. could leave. Apparently he kept getting louder and louder. I think it must have been one of those assemblies where they try to whip up a lot of enthusiasm by yelling into a microphone.
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<br />This weekend at the pool, B. kept yelling out something that sounded like, " COOKIE DOUGH! Hey, what??" over and over. Our favorite lifeguard, who is fascinated by the twins, is sure that B. is ready to get out there and sell.
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<br />And, luckily, despite the yelling, and having to stop school assemblies, J. still says he is "super proud" to have the twins at his school. Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8896441419741853694.post-46998754582928156542011-08-03T22:16:00.000-07:002011-08-03T22:20:00.538-07:00<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjxNIiJRMYI07UuIXzm7aTaNT2CFXjk4TWp5X9HUh0W3wy1RIUJzBIfNgTTkeNMnMHRR9zuoHe5X1AuyCM1v2F8AzC9euw3buc3Ofb9bZYOTY3dwRsV0f1LkH7mo7lJ23P3RsS7JKulDFI/s1600/0newhomepage.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 233px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjxNIiJRMYI07UuIXzm7aTaNT2CFXjk4TWp5X9HUh0W3wy1RIUJzBIfNgTTkeNMnMHRR9zuoHe5X1AuyCM1v2F8AzC9euw3buc3Ofb9bZYOTY3dwRsV0f1LkH7mo7lJ23P3RsS7JKulDFI/s320/0newhomepage.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5636866123767693106" /></a><br />Found the (so far) perfect pajamas:<br /><br />www.littlekeepersleeper.com<br /><br />It is such a simple product, but it has really improved my quality of life a LOT!Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8896441419741853694.post-76562130335704400492011-07-20T12:55:00.000-07:002011-07-20T12:56:24.656-07:00Right now, everything is about toilet training, and I do not feel like blogging about it.<br /><br />Although if anyone can recommend pajamas which absolutely cannot be stripped off, please let me know.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8896441419741853694.post-83899720435678254462011-06-28T09:37:00.000-07:002011-06-28T09:52:59.571-07:00So far, so goodThe ABA-less summer is proceeding fine. So far we are all about toilet-training and going to the pool. Unfortunately combining those two things is not necessarily so great. I think of taking the twins to the pool as "swim diaper roulette". We haven't been banned from any pools, but that may be because of lifeguard cluelessness. Enough on that topic.<br /><br />J. is having a mixed summer-- the days are going okay, but in the evening he is falling back into some old behavior issues. I think he keeps a lot of frustration about life with the twins inside, and when it's too much, he unleashes it toward my husband and me. In the daytime he is usual creative and funny self.<br /><br />One night lately I managed to sneak out and meet another local autism mom. We talked so late they closed the restaurant before we'd realized it (we were on the patio). She is trying hard to move to the Northeast and says she refuses to send her daughter to Texas schools. I will miss her if they move, but I understand wanting to get somewhere with more services. I've actually been avoiding support groups lately, but a support group of two was probably what we had both been needing.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8896441419741853694.post-64061537357255235482011-05-26T09:16:00.000-07:002011-05-26T09:32:16.027-07:00To ABA or not to ABA?In the last few months before we quit ABA, our insurance suddenly deigned to cover a fraction of it. Now the therapy center is asking us if we'd like to come back for some hours this summer. Ahhh, the joy of deciding how much and what therapy to get!<br /><br />To be honest, I haven't seen any big regressions since we quit ABA. Also, the twins qualified for 18 days of Extended Year Services (that's the most you can get, so I am happily surprised). Right now, there isn't even a little part of me that wants to take them back to the ABA center although I do miss the therapists. Am I denying them something that might help them? My gut says no, but who knows?<br /><br />The alternative summer plan:<br />They will be getting many, many hours of aquatic therapy (aka floating around in the neighborhood pool with Mom). Also ample opportunity to use technical interfaces (IPad), and various community outings (Target, Walmart, Kroger). They will have access to an embarrassingly large library of children's books (my shopping weakness) and opportunities for play in inclusive groups (the neighbors' children and their big brother). We will be working on trying new foods, using the toilet (God willing) and staying clothed. <br /><br />Even to myself I sound defensive, but we'll see how it goes.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8896441419741853694.post-43758686866412249442011-05-12T11:53:00.000-07:002011-05-13T13:52:06.328-07:00Keys to the Universe, a la Susan SenatorIn homage to Susan Senator's occasional lists of what really makes her happy, here are some of my keys to the universe:<br /><br />1. a planned trip to see my parents, my sisters, my nephew and my dog-nephews<br /><br />2. newly-discovered Chai tea bags<br /><br />3. watching 30 Rock DVD's with my husband after all the boys are in bed<br /><br />4. watching Dancing with the Stars with my oldest son<br /><br />5. spring rolls from Pho 21<br /><br />6. painting the bathroom with the radio cranked up<br /><br />7. walking on the abandoned golf course in our neighborhood<br /><br />8. going swimming with B. and watching him teach himself to swim<br /><br />9. sitting out on the deck after dark while G. marches around singing his Christmas song medley<br /><br />That is a very satisfying exercise. It's a good antidote to compulsively going over my worries in my head! I am going to make these lists more often.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8896441419741853694.post-89981108401974642052011-05-05T05:56:00.000-07:002011-05-05T06:10:23.059-07:00B gets lost...and how to trust that it won't happen again?This Monday we went on a field trip to the Houston Zoo. It was a beautiful day, and we had a great time (although the twins aren't at the point of being very interested in the actual animals yet). <br /><br />At the very end, in a huge crowd of Houston schoolchildren waiting for buses, a paraprofessional spaced out, and Brendan disappeared. I had G., and I walked up to the group of aides, and asked, "Where's B.?" They hadn't noticed he wasn't there. Next came fifteen minutes of running around like a mad woman, asking the zoo officials to close the zoo gates, and saying to random people, "If you see an autistic-looking boy in a blue shirt, grab him". The teacher had stayed back at the school, so I had to take charge of the situation.<br /><br />Despite all these years of private therapy, public education, etc., the twins have no sense of danger, and no sense of the need to stay with a group. They might respond to their names in a quiet setting, but definitely not outdoors in a crowd. Luckily, a para found him standing in the gift shop. We still don't know exactly how it happened--he was sitting in a wagon, and the para thought he was buckled in.<br /><br />Today we are going on another field trip, to a boardwalk, which is right next to Galveston Bay. I almost stayed home with both of them, but I can't keep them home from everything. Letting my guys go off to school, on trips, etc. requires so much trust of people I don't really know very well. I don't know how to balance worry/caution with trust. It's written into both boys' IEP's that they will run off, and I'm trying to think of other precautions we could take (including getting B. a service dog). With J., their big brother, I don't have any of these concerns. I need to find a way of trusting in aides, teachers and fate more than I do right now.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8896441419741853694.post-28078186510096695702011-04-27T08:18:00.000-07:002011-04-27T08:38:04.955-07:00On the other hand...<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhyr10Pa1eDTCYmL5Zp1ddVSh4q1XLFxlzerCKxryBaQVtZ45ESosI_1TY2-_jDK8uYCUQ26y7m_k5ZrmxvdFqvE-OkrY4M8iePInh94jCHQtSRaeiaW-SHeZ33-GAW4Wjk9aSLE_7ZwlQ/s1600/DSCN4485.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 235px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhyr10Pa1eDTCYmL5Zp1ddVSh4q1XLFxlzerCKxryBaQVtZ45ESosI_1TY2-_jDK8uYCUQ26y7m_k5ZrmxvdFqvE-OkrY4M8iePInh94jCHQtSRaeiaW-SHeZ33-GAW4Wjk9aSLE_7ZwlQ/s320/DSCN4485.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5600288081293432530" /></a><br />J. had a different friend over the other day, and i was appalled! B. was sitting in a chair on the deck, looking around at the trees, as he often does. I overheard our neighbor's son saying, "He's so boring!" J. just laughed nervously. Then the little boy said, "Make him scream again!" I think he was talking about the happy shouts that B. tends to make when he's jumping around the house. J. was at a loss and just looked at me. I was so disappointed in this boy's attitude, but I tried to think to myself that he's nervous around B., and doesn't understand what's going on. So I did my best to explain autism in a few sentences, but I couldn't tell if it made much impression. I was so annoyed by the whole interaction. I don't know the boy's parents well, but I know the dad is always very kind toward the twins, and invited us to join a camping group he's in. I think I'll ask the dad to talk to his son about it.<br /><br />Afterward I talked with J., and said there will always be some kids who don't know much about autism, and if he wants, I'll explain things to any of his friends. J. seemed much less concerned about it than I was. Looking back, I'm realizing that the rest of J's friends are amazingly accepting about the twins. Our next door neighbors have a daughter with developmental delays, so between our two houses there's a lot of happy shouting, partially-clad escape attempts, and toilet-training mayhem. To live on our street is to have at least some understanding of six year olds with special needs! <br /><br />I think it was good to have a wake up call that there will be rude questions and clueless comments from kids J's age, and I need to think up some strategies to deal with them. To me the twins are so adorable, I can't imagine anyone saying anything mean about them, but it is going to happen.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8896441419741853694.post-29397279394770431382011-04-16T14:44:00.000-07:002011-04-16T14:52:20.718-07:00Thanks for noticingJ., my oldest son, had a friend sleep over last night. His friend is an only child and is always surprised by the reality of our household. With the candor of a seven-year-old, he has suggested a few times that I clean up the house more often. He also reports the twins' escapades to me in a panick=y voice at frequent intervals. It's usually along the lines of "B. is naked!", "G. is on the kitchen counter!" or "B. is jumping on the IPad!". Actually those are all actual quotes from last night.<br /><br />This morning, while B. and my husband were still sleeping, I took J, G and J's friend out to the kolache and donut shop. We got our treats and sat at a table to eat. After we'd been there a while, J's friend said, "Hey, Greg is doing really well!"<br /><br />That warmed my heart so much. For one thing, J's friend is getting some perspective on the whole situation. And, he was right, G. was doing really well.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8896441419741853694.post-62686628836544418772011-04-13T13:14:00.000-07:002011-04-13T13:23:31.657-07:00Potty Training UpdateWell, apparently I am backing off on the potty training once again. Although we were focusing on G., it was B. who made some improvement. G. just became stressed, aggressive, and started saying, "Sleep? Sleep?" in the middle of the afternoon, hoping I'd put a pull-up on him and put him to bed. <br /><br />I know that some day, G will use the bathroom. He can wait hours and hours, he can ask for what he needs and he can go when he decides he's ready. We just need to change the location of where he likes to go or actually, HE needs to change the location of where he likes to go. <br /><br />On a related note, a Hoover SteamVac should be arriving at our house in 3 to 5 business days, and boy is it going to be busy!Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8896441419741853694.post-36201677835579702492011-04-11T12:18:00.000-07:002011-04-11T12:43:32.003-07:00Galveston<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhKbEuN2kasX0J78fCI_65tqpAuf3n6ycUk6t3-CkX1MR72P2NV-mznwjv3TQJtOXRuztFyXRNpTeM1GREhZqhBHgDaPem9slIh1Os_pXmwL_60lZgoU7X-k1PCFuvY1jBxqWqyNefMflA/s1600/IMG_0294.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 268px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhKbEuN2kasX0J78fCI_65tqpAuf3n6ycUk6t3-CkX1MR72P2NV-mznwjv3TQJtOXRuztFyXRNpTeM1GREhZqhBHgDaPem9slIh1Os_pXmwL_60lZgoU7X-k1PCFuvY1jBxqWqyNefMflA/s320/IMG_0294.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5594410989253299602"></a><br />Since our first family beach trip last year, we've resolved to go down more often, especially in the off times. No one in our family likes a big crowd, but we all love the surf and an empty-as-possible beach. So, this past Saturday we packed up and headed back down to Galveston.<br /><br />If you are used to New England beaches, it's a bit of an adjustment. To me it doesn't seem as clean, and there's no zoning, so the development on Galveston isn't exactly quaint or charming. On the other hand, you find a nice cross-section of the local poplulation on the beach, with a fun, multi-lingual, multi-cultural feel.<br /><br />It was very grey and very windy. The boys loved the waves, which seemed a lot bigger than usual. Afterwards we went out to Mooyah Burger, which everybody liked or tolerated really well. When we go out and have such a normal family day, it's a really great feeling.<object id="BLOG_video-FAILED" class="BLOG_video_class" width="320" height="266" contentid="FAILED"></object>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com4